Place the dates, water and rum into a medium saucepan and simmer slowly until the dates are a thick paste. Remove from the heat and leave to cool.
In the meantime put the butter, sugar, vanilla and honey in a bowl and beat with an electric mixer
Add the eggs one at a time and beat with the mixer.
Add the flour, baking soda and spices to the mixture and beat at a slow speed until combined.
Add the date puree and dried fruit, mix until combined.
Divide the mixture between the moulds and bake in the oven for 20 minutes until cooked.
Turn out onto plates straight away.Butterscotch Sauce
Place the butter, sugar and salt into a saucepan and cook over a medium heat until melted and smooth.
Bubble away for a few minutes and then add the cream and stir to make a smooth sauce. Optional- Add a splash of rum (or other tipple) and cook for a few minutes. Spoon over the puddingsNut Praline
Place the sugar in a saucepan and heat gently until the sugar has melted and caramelised and a deep brown colour.
Remove from the heat and add the nuts straight away and stir until all coated.
Spread the mixture onto a parchment lined baking tray and press down to get a thin layer.
Leave to cool completely.
Break the nut praline up into pieces and serve with the puddings and sauce.
Recipe by Cherished By Me at https://cherishedbyme.com/2015/11/christmas-sticky-toffee-pudding/